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有一种毒药叫成功
——《新周刊》2007.8.15
现代社会有三粒毒药:消费主义、性自由和成功学。
消费主义以品牌为噱头,以时尚为药效,将人卷入无休止的购买与淘汰的恶性循环中,恋物成瘾。
性自由以人性为噱头,以性人比黄花瘦爱为药效,不断释放暧昧与激情的烟雾弹,纵欲成瘾。
成功学以速成为噱头,以名利为药效,误导急于走捷径成为人上人的年轻人投身其中,投机成瘾。
三粒毒药中,以成功学危害最巨——它以教育之名,行“毒”化社会气氛、“毒”化人心、破坏多元价值观之实。
在成功学逻辑中,如果你没有赚到“豪宅、汽车、年入百万”,如果你们没有成为他人艳羡的成功人士,就证明你不行,你犯了“不成功罪”!
助你“实现人生价值”、“开发个人潜能”、“3个月赚到100万”、“有车有房”、“35岁以前退休”......成功学泛滥于职场和网络,上进人群迷失在多款提升课程和短期培训班里,成功学大师满天飞,成功学培训蔚为大观成产业。
我们何时变得如此渴望成功?成功何以变得如此简单粗暴?那些成功学大师除了演讲收钱还能做什么成功的事?我们可不可以不成功?
个人奋斗很可嘉,实现自我很诱人,名利滋味很甜美。但一个社会结构中,成功人士不过1%,且离不开长期实干和机遇。若成功一学就会,且成王败寇,成功人士光荣,非成功人士可耻,那么,社会中99%的大多数还怎么活下去?生活中有许多美好事物和价值,是成功课程所蔑视、给不了和教不会的。
当全民成功变成狂热风潮,成功上升为绝对真理办的、人人趋之若鹜的主流价值观,成功学就是一粒毒药,而信奉成功学的人就沦为牺牲品。
| 崔健 假行僧 |
我要从南走到北我还要从白走到黑 |
崔健:不是我不明白
过去我不知什么是宽阔胸怀
过去我不知世界有很多奇怪
过去我幻想的未来可不是现在
现在才似乎清楚什么是未来
噢……
过去的所作所为我分不清好坏
过去的光阴流逝我记不清年代
我曾经认为简单的事情现在全不明白
我忽然感到眼前的世界并非我所在
二十多年来我好象只学会了忍耐
难怪姑娘们总是说我不实实在在
我强打起精神,从睡梦中醒来
可醒来才知这个世界变化真叫快
噢……
放眼看那座座高楼如同那稻麦
看眼前是人的海洋和交通的堵塞
我左看右看前看后看还是看不过来
这个这个那个那个越看越奇怪
过去我不知什么是宽阔胸怀
过去我不知世界有很多奇怪
过去我幻想的未来可不是现在
现在才似乎清楚什么是未来
噢……
不是我不明白,这世界变化快
7月中旬有机会去了一次长阳
美丽的清江,静静的流过
老式的楼房
几种美丽的小花
夜间挂灯
基地及周边
火烧坪的人们
季节性背菜工
杂货店老板在料理我们的午餐
摩托车是这里重要的交通工具
味道很好的腊肉
小小猫猫咪咪
云雾中的天柱山,上面不知道住的是师太还是道长,呵呵
回来的时候顺便腐佳节又重阳败败
有荤有素,嘿嘿
店主的小姑娘过生日
又去董寨抓虫,用相机记录了些东东
先看虫子咯:
黑豹弄蝶

色彩绚丽的叶甲

天蛾一种,不常见的

鹿蛾一只,用餐中


移动的雏菊——蜡蝉若虫


凶猛的捕食者:
虎甲

草领幼虫

猎蝽


蜘蛛类



螳蛉

大型捕虫者,嘿嘿


温和的寄生者


比较恶心人的系列:
龟甲幼虫


毛虫类



还有一个可爱的小妹妹,使我想起了丫丫

烟花 璀璨无比
一瞬间归于沉寂
飘雪 纯白天地
转眼溶化没痕迹
流星 闪亮飞驰
只留下点滴记忆
彩虹 五光十色
可惜拥不进怀里
我和你
在时空的这一点相遇
能不能
把所有美丽延续下去
要坚持 我爱你
不容易 不离不弃
多珍惜 只怕终于会过去
情不移 在一起
心不死
但愿不是一个奇迹
是不是一个奇迹
我和你
在时空的这一点相遇
能不能
把所有美丽延续下去
永恒 从你开始
要运气也要勇气
时间 证明一切
我们不用再怀疑
听来自Chuckie Akenz,一首忧伤的Rap,背景的女生哼唱
仔细琢磨琢磨,感觉老外表达爱情的言语还真有点哏儿
无耻的样子很有几分我年轻时的神韵,嘿嘿
歌词 Lyrics
this goes out to someone that was
once the most important person in my life
i didn't realize it at the time
i can't forgive myself for the way i treated you so
i don't really expect you to either
it's just... i don't even know
just listen...
you're the one that i want, the one that i need
the one that i gotta have just to succeed
when i first saw you, i knew it was real
i'm sorry about the pain i made you feel
that wasn't me; let me show you the way
i looked for the sun, but it's raining today
i remember when i first looked into your eyes
it was like god was there, heaven in the skies
i wore a disguise 'cause i didn't want to get hurt
but i didn't know i made everything worse
you told me we were crazy in love
but you didn't care when push came to shove
if you loved me as much as you said you did
then you wouldn't have hurt me like i ain't shit
now you pushed me away like you never even knew me
i loved you with my heart, really and truly
i guess you forgot about the times that we shared
when i would run my fingers through your hair
late nights, just holding you in my arms
i don't know how i could do you so wrong
i really wanna show you i really need to hold you
i really wanna know you like no one could else know you
you're number one, always in my heart
and now i can't believe that our love is torn apart
i need you and
i miss you and
i want you and
i love you 'cause
i wanna hold you,
i wanna kiss you
you were my everything
and i really miss you
i knew you gonna sit and play this with your new man
and then sit and laugh as you're holding his hand
the thought of that just shatters my heart
it breaks in my soul and it tears me apart
at times we was off i was scared to show you
now i wanna hold you until i can't hold you
without you, everything seems strange
your name is forever planted in my brain
damn it, i'm insane,
take away the pain
take away the hurt
baby, we can make it work
what about when you
looked into my eyes
told me you loved me
as you would hugged me
i guess everything you said was a lie
i think about it, it brings tears to my eyes
now i'm not even a thought in your mind
i can see clearly, my love is not blind
i just wish everything could have turned out differently
i had a special feeling about you
i thought maybe you did too
you would understand, but...
no matter what, you'll always be in my heart
you'll always be my baby
our first day, it seemed so magical
i remember all the time that i had with you
remember when you first came to my house?
you looked like an angel wearing that blouse
we hit it off, i knew it was real
but now i can't take all the pain that i feel
reach in your heart, i know i'm still there
i don't wanna hear that you no longer care
remember the times? remember when we kissed?
i didn't think you would ever do me like this
i didn't think you'd wanna see me depressed
i thought you'd be there for me, this i confess
you said you were my best friend, was that a lie?
now i'm nothing to you, you're with another guy
i tried, i tried, i tried, and i'm trying
now on the inside it feels like i'm dying
and i do miss you
i just thought we were meant to be
i guess now, we'll never know
the only thing i want is for you to be happy
whether it be with me, or without me
i just want you to be happy